Recently my Partners Mother has been diagnosed with breast cancer , understanderbly my partner has been very concerned about this , I have tried my best to try and support and be there, I have struggled with this on acount of suffering with issues relating to anxiety. Sometimes it feels as though me trying to be supportive and showing affection to her makes her angry, she has often said that I'm making it about me which I can accept although that hasn't been my intention, and it has taken a toll on our relationship, I worry that I've made her feel like she can not come to me, she is very independant and I guess I struggle with not being able to make the situation better , I love her very much and am reaching out because I genuinely feel in the dark with how best to support her