Lung cancer and corona virus

Hi,

I'm so confused and worried.

My hubby has been diagnosed with lung cancer and is just about to start palliative radiotherapy, 5 day course. 
He's been told to stay in for 12 weeks due to corona virus, however I work at Tesco on the checkouts and so torn about what to do about working and risking my husband, his family are giving me a hard time as I'm still working.   I've asked for advice from my gp they just said wash your hands frequently?!! 

There must be other people in similar positions?  Do I continue working or stop to keep hubby safe?

Any advice given is greatly appreciated.

Stay well

Mary x

  • Hello Mary and welcome to the forum but sorry that you find yourself here. Lung cancer alone is hard to cope with without all the worries that come with the coronavirus.  When my late husband was diagnosed with lung cancer in 2016, we were given a prognosis of 9-12 months.  He had 4 sessions of palliative radiotherapy with a view to keeping the tumour at bay and giving him a better quality of life for his remaining time.

    I was working at the time and decided to carry on as long as the situation allowed. However I only managed to do this for a couple of months as he really started to deteriorate, he had problems swallowing and used to choke and vomit blood.  This continued until he passed away after only 6 months.

    I am so sorry for you both, horrible having to deal with the cancer and the ongoing worry with the coronavirus which affects the lungs.

    I don't think that anyone else can make the decision for you, and no not even his family.

    I hope that you do what you feel is right for yourself and your husband.

    Sending caring thoughts to you at such a difficult time.

    Lynne.x

  • Hi Lynne, 

    Thank you so much for replying. I'm very sorry you had to go through it, life is so cruel sometimes. 

    It's such a scary time, with the diagnosis and now the coronavirus. 

    We've been was told 3-6 months, he's not really symptomatic at the moment.  Hubby is telling me to carry on working but my instincts are to stay home, I'd never forgive myself if I brought the coronavirus home. 

    Thanks for your reply again. 
    Take care 

    Mary x

     

  • My boyfriend  went to hospital  11 days ago and he has lung cancer and now while in hospital  he caught the virus  

  • Hello and welcome to the forum.  My husband has lung cancer so I know how careful you need to be. I'm sure Tesco has a HR department, ask to speak to them and explain your situation, they may give you some leave to see you through.  Or go to your GP and say how stressed you are and could they sign you off.  Family cannot have a go at you when it's such a hard decision to make, tell them you are doing the best you can.  Good luck, Carol x