Hi this is the first time I've posted here but just looking a few opinions on what to do.
My mum was diagnosed with incurable lung cancer just before Christmas, she doesn't know life expectancy but I do. I'm less than 1 year married and have 2 brothers both living out of the house so mum is currently living on her own. She is doing good day to day and still living relatively normal. With the coronavirus situation she is shielding for 12 weeks and the thought has crossed my mind of should I go and be with her for the 12 weeks. However I'm worried about leaving my husband for so long and just not sure what to do! I am thinking of self isolating with my husband for a week at a time and then being able to go to mums for a few days to keep her company and make the most of the time we have while she is still feeling good. I'm just very aware that 12 weeks is a long time when you've got incurable cancer and things could change quickly.
Any help would be great, or just words of encouragement. Helpful to know if I'm not the only one in this type of situation. Thanks so much!!
