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I’m losing my mum

Amytx
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My mum was diagnosed with stage 4 terminal liver cancer two weeks ago and since then she has gone down hill and given up. 
the last 24 hours have been the biggest change, she doesn't want to eat or drink and keeps gagging and sleeping heavily. 
I feel so helpless and I keep crying in front of her (can't help it) because I don't know what to do and so scared of losing her, I'm an only child and feel so alone. 
I just don't know what to do with myself and if I should go home and have a sleep (she's still at home with my dad and I live with my husband)  but then I'm scared something will happen to her. 
what do I do :confused:

  • Hello Amytx

    I'm so sorry to hear about the situation with your Mum.

    Do you and your Dad have any support in taking care of her? Is there a nursing team involved who visit Mum at home? If so it's worth having a chat with them for some advice. 

    If you don't currently have some medical support at home then get in touch with Mum's GP who will be able to help get this arranged. 

    Importantly you and your Dad also need to look after yourselves as well so if you need a break for a few hours to recharge your batteries then don't feel guilty. 

    If you'd like to speak to one of our nurses for some support then please do give them a call on 0808 800 4040 (Mon-Fri 9am to 5pm). 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator

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