My father's cancer came back

God am I depressed. My father's cancer came back today.

They said he had 3 small tumors around his bladder. They said that they were really small and that they were going to cut them out.

I am terrified. He had stage one bladder cancer before and they removed his tumor in June 2018. He was clear 3 months ago.

I can't find anything online about whether or not 3 tumors is more dangerous or not. Does this mean it has spread to other organs. Please I need some reassurance.

This isn't helping my anxiety.

  • This is so hard for you as I know because my husband's Cancer has spread to his liver but apart from immunotherapy there is nothing else they can do but it sounds much more hopeful with your Dad as they can cut it out.  He may need follow up treatment but please try and stay positive it's such a better state of mind than negative thoughts.  Both my daughters are struggling because their Dad isn't getting better but your Dad has a much better chance, so think in that way.  I've put you on the follow thread and seeing as I'm an oldie and confined to home I can write again if you wish.  Good luck, Carol