Living far, dad's battle with prostate cancer

Hello to all. 

I am not sure if I should post this but my heart is pouring out and just want to share it with someone because in fast paced world even people close to us don't listen. I m living in uk and a lupus patient. It's been seven months when dad is diagnosed with prostate cancer stage 4. He and my mom live in india. His condition deteriorating day by day. There is no one there to help them. My parents cry every time I call them. I cry every day to hear his condition. I want to go there and give some kind of imotional support. But I m a poor person, living with lupus, not been able to work, can't claim benefits because I m not british, got a child, got absolutely no saving. I have no money to book a ticket to india. Feeling so helpless. I don't know what to do. My dad has almost given up on his disease. I tried to borrow some money but failed because low credit score. I even asked few friends but been refused. I m feeling like hell. Please pray for my father if u believe in God. Thanks

  • Hello Poordoll, 

    I am so sorry to hear your dad is deteriorating day by day after being diagnosed with Stage 4 prostate cancer. It must be heartbreaking for you especially as you are living so far away. It's sad as well that there is no one there to help your parents at the moment. Perhaps it might be worth getting in touch or giving your parents the details of the Indian Cancer Society? You can find out more about this organization here and they may be able to give you some advice or suggestions as to what practical help for example might be available to your parents in their area for example. 

    I just wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you and your family during this difficult time. 

    Best wishes, 

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator