Hi there people, 

Advice really, my childrens dad, was diagnosed with throat cancer oct 2018, had 6 weeks of radiotherapy, got told it had worked in March.  Having regular pet scans, in September they said cancer not there in throat, however small lesion on the lung keep a yearly check, app for sep 2020 , December  regular pet scan again, had a appointment for emergency lung doctor, got told the small lesion had grown!! Need to undergo some test come back 9th march with a plan in place hope to remove whole lung, we did mention about swollen feet however lung doctor didn't seem to concernd about it, any way got a letter today, BNP count raised much more and because of the swelling having a ct scan Sunday and booked to see cardiologist 12th march??

My heads all over the place is the cancer in the heart now?? if theres something wrong with his heart can he not have treatment for the lung?? His seems so poorly now, he was 10 times fitter when going through the radiotherapy for six weeks then now, his so breathless no energy pale couloring skin .

I'm worried and if that's not enough my mum has terminal cancer that she has fault for 6 years this summer after been given 6-12 months!! And it's her results in the morning that we are all dreading as she has got slightly poorly too

Just dont know what to do anymore as it's the most scary place I've found myself and dont want to let them know as they are the ones with the illness so what must be going through there mind

Thank you for taking the time to read xx