Hello,
my younger sister had breast cancer 22 years' ago but thrived and survived - she ran marathons! But now she has secondary cancers throughout her body. Her blood count is so low that she now can't receive the last chance chemo.
There are three siblings - me, my brother and my sister - in that order.
We feel that she has pushed both of us out of her life: she doesn't talk to us nor engage in any other way. We don't know why or what's happening, what her condition is or the prognosis.
Everything I offer to do seems to be the 'wrong' thing - I can't do the right thing but I don't know what the right thing is anymore. The boundaries and assistance seems to keep changing week by week, day by day.
I feel helpless... guilty, usless and not a Good Sister.
R
