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My dad has cancer

rainbowangel456
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Hi,

I don't really know what to say as I'm still in shock. I'm 25 years old and my dad has been diagnosed with cancer of the tonsil and tongue and I just feel heartbroken. How can I be strong for someone when I feel so low? 
 

The doctors have said that they will treat it with radiotherapy and possibly chemotherapy. It hasn't spread anywhere else as his glands have stopped it from going to his throat. He won't need surgery. He is so upbeat about everything yet I'm not and I feel so selfish for it. Has anyone experienced this type of cancer and will he be okay? I need reassurance to help me feel better about a bad situation. 
 

Thank you 

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    Hi,

    I'm so sorry to hear about your dad, my dad was diagnosed with lung cancer back in September and I've been through a whole rollercoaster of emotions. please don't feel selfish for your own feelings, it's normal. I've gone through shock, anger, tears etc but all we can do is be there for our dad's but look after yourself too. X

     

     

  • Offline in reply to Karenk23

    Thank you for replying to me. My head is all over the place. I'm sorry to hear about your dad too. I know it's normal but I feel so silly for being so sad and down when I'm not the one going through it! But we've got to stay strong and positive and I'm sure they will both be fine! 

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