my brother has been diagnosed with advanced stage penile cancer and I'm not sure what I can do to help him through this horrifyingly ordeal. He's only 22 along with being the baby of the family which just seems to make this whole thing seem so much worse if that's possible. Our mums in bits at the moment and can't stop uncontrollably, our dad is trying his best to keep everyone calm but it's obvious he's struggling to deal with the situation just as much as the rest of us. Our older brother has called off work and taking the long drive from London to be here with him for the next couple of weeks and for his first surgery before he has to head back home to his family, so the only sibling he's really going to have to turn to most of the time is me. I'm trying to be there for him but it's so hard to look at him in the face and not well up with tears with the thought of losing him, it's so painful to see him so scared unsure if he's going to be okey or not. He's also been complaining of stomach pains which he's having further tests done to hopefully rule out it hasn't spread anywhere in his stomach which is our biggest concern at the moment. He's also having a biopsy done of a lump close to his shin bone that's been giving him pains, but the doctor thinks it's probably a lipoma/cyst that is just in a unusual place and is pushing against nerves.