Hi there ..

So so sorry your going through this really hard time at the mo .. but it made me remember my brother in law,  he had the same type cancer, and he went from the healthiest , strongest man in out or family to just a shadow of how he used to be .. we all spent so much time trying to get him to eat .. when he really didn't want to .. every mouthful must have been so hard for him .. even sucking chocolate in those last week's made him sick ..

Looking back I wish we hadn't.. as he tried more for us, then him .. so I'm not telling how or what to do .. everyone is different .. but know he's probly not eating because he can't.. as hard as that is .. just let him sip drinks when he can ... as the mouth gets really dry ... 

My heart goes out to you .. so sending you a vertual hug...  Chrissie xx

Thank you Billygoat and Chriss will try those drinks but he is feeling a little better and has eaten small amounts today i think i just had a wobbly moments and was seeing everything very black so thank you for replying 

Hi Gutted.

So sorry to hear about your husband.

My dad was very similar, he had very little appetite. We found it helped asking my dad what he wanted to eat. Prior to his passing, he took a liking for fruit and apple juice so we were feeding him things he requested such as watermelon and pineapple. I would also recommend soup, just make sure you puree it down as much as possible so that it is easier for them to consume. Also, things like Weetabix so they don't have to chew much and you can even try making him smoothies at home.

I pray for his improvement and send you strength.