Hi there ..

So sorry your going through this heartbraking time... it's so sad caring for someone you love ... and it's truly not fare ..

When my brother in law was like that , not wanting to eat because of the various cancers ... he's just have a tiny bit of chocolate .. then that stopped .. so my sister got him some high protein shake from the chemist .. but in the end he couldn't take that either ... just little sips ... I know how heartbraking it is ... but it's hard to know where they are on their journey... some can rally round for a bit .. or just let go .. you could always phone Marie Currie... they help people with terminal diagnosis.... and their families... 

Maybe it would do you good to actually chat to someone ... I've heard they are really lovely there ... sending you a vertual hug....  Chrissie xx