Hi my Dad was diagnosed with bladder cancer last October. He is 77. He had an operation to remove it and was then packed with chemo. Whilst doing the scan they found lung cancer. The cancer was too close to his heart and he has been told it is inoperable and incurable. This was NYE. He has had an intensive course of radio and chemo and it shrank very slightly. Now my Dad is a private man and probably my parents don't ask the right questions ie grades outcome. He has gone in for a bladder check and the bladder cancer has come back. My dad has hereditary diabetes so his moods are all over the place and he is angry and depressed. And at the moment no good news is coming. He has lost weight and not eating and the treatment has really knocked him. I have three useless brothers and so it's all down to me to try and remain positive. What i would like to know is life expectancy as I would like to be a bit more prepared. I thought in a rainbow world this was being won! My dad will not let me go to any appointments and I can't ask too many questions and I have to respect that. Thanks for reading this.
