Hi first time posting here basically my dad has prostrate cancer he was under watchful waiting by hospital but was struggling to walk after doctors involvement turns out my dad has slipped through the net and as a result the cancer has spread and he now has a spinal cord compression which is why he has been unable to walk they also discovered lung cancer but only 1 nodule which I've been told is good. The doctor told me he has maybe 12 months he's 87years old he celebrated his 65th wedding anniversary last week I've noticed he's losing a lot of weight he is still chatty he also has a grade 4 bedsore which looks awful. My mum doesn't seem to realise how ill he is he's saying to my mum he wants me and my friend to lift him up and get him walking but I'm looking at him and there's no way he could walk he's lost all muscle. It's really upsetting me and I feel bad my mum has said he will surprise you all and walk it feels like I'm giving up on him I'm not at all I just see the reality of what's happening and it's breaking me. We lost my sister 5 years ago I don't think my parents got over that now I have to face this. I've just finished a very messy divorce during which my children have cut me out their lives. And my parents haven't seen their grandchildren for over 12 years through my ex I just don't know what to expect for him what will happen and will he be in pain. Sorry if I'm a bit long winded I started about my dad and opened a can of worms if anyone else has experienced prostrate cancer I'd love know what to expect thanks in advance