Hi there,

sorry to hear about your friend.

my friend has recently been diagnosed with cancer and I have had the same thoughts.

i thnk we can only support them through their journey and hope for the best!

try to treat your friend as you normally would, allow her to talk about how she’s feeling if she wants to and just be there to listen.

although it’s hard try not to show your own fear and be strong for your friend, she will be worried herself.

I am so scared for my friend and want to support her, we might not always say or do the right thing but we are only human and that’s what friends are for x

treat your friend like to 

I treat her the same I don't want to think about my own feeling I want to make sure I'm there for 110% I may not say the right thing at time but I will an try reasure her how are u dealing with it all so sorry to here about your friend x 

I think it’s the waiting that’s the hardest part, she had a radical hysterectomy nearly 4 weeks ago and goes back on Wednesday for her results.

i just hope it hasn’t spread, she’s only 41.

when does your friend go back? 

She's goes bk tomorrow for another biopsy just struggling at the minute Cuz she really all I have yeah the waiting is so hard it's all u think about as trying to be strong my problem is I go really quiet  and that don't help I try to change the subject to try an help her think of something else when really all she want to do is talk about it 

Really hope your friends hasnt spead an she gets some good news on Wednesday  xx 

It’s a horrible feeling isn’t it?

you sound like a lovely friend to have,

your friend will just be glad you’re there to support her whatever you talk about honestly.

try not to think the worst, I know it’s really hard but it isn’t always bad news.

fingers crossed for both our friends x