Hi, 

we have been on such a journey with my Dad & wonder if anyone can relate or give advice. 

He was diagnosed with bowel cancer liver mets at beginning of year. He lost so so much weight & was very frail , they did a bowel & liver resection, but was told cancer had spread into small intestines. 

He had complications after surgery & wasn’t well at all, we were told he only have months possibly weeks to live. 

We sadly prepared ourselves for this , he wasn’t fit for chemo anyway & he decided quality over quantity was way forward.

4 weeks ago we had a call from oncologist asking why not came in for chemo , he explained situation & was told you have been very mislead theres no cancer left, take chemo you will be fine & bk to work in 6 months. 

So this apparently is adjuvant chemo for assurance, ct scan had & cant see anything obvious. 

My Dads head is all over the place as is ours. He has no confidence in hospital & doesn’t want to go ahead with chemo.