Hi my husband my rock was diagnosed with kidney cancer and spots on lung in May 2019, kidney removed 20th of June he is doing ok, still has catheter in, had 1 trial day without catheter but not successful, saw consultant last Tuesday and the next step is hopefully targeted chemotherapy on lungs but it is a trial and he maybe put on a placebo tablet!! I have read on here about the "team" a nurse who would give us information and emotional support, the only person we have seen is the consultant who told gave us the first diagnoses and the same one who told us what the next step would be, if it wasnt for this forum we would be completely alone with our fears despair and just no point in going on, every new pain he gets we worry that the cancer is spreading we know that this isn't logical but at dark moments it feels real.