Worried

My mother is due for her pet scan in 6 days. My anxiety level is through the roof. She is getting more fearful as the day gets closer. Plus, she sees the doctor 4 days after the scan which adds another round of waiting. I am extremely scared that something is wrong or that she has further treatment to do. I try keeping my fear from her and encourage her to remain positive. How do I survive this wait?

  • Waiting is the worst thing. I don't know how you will survive the wait ' cause none of us do but SOMEHOW we manage it because there isn't a choice. Take it hour by hour - keep as busy as you can doing normal/everyday things & the time WILL pass.You are clearly worried your mum has cancer but 9 out of 10 people who are referred for tests for it DO NOT HAVE IT!! Focus on those numbers not on what might be.

    You're already keeping strong for your mum & I'm sure you'll carry on doing it.

    Take care of yourself & then you'll be able to take care of your mum.

    Kind regards to you both.