Hi,
My mum has stage 4 bowel cancer, spread to appendix, liver and peritoneum. Since being diagnosed just under a year ago with the above she’s gone through 6 rounds of chemo which appeared to have ‘stunned’ the cancer in the doctors terms and it had temporarily stopped growing/spreading. In the last 3/4 weeks she has had severe abdominal pains, vomiting and diarrhoea following hours of pain. She had these bouts after chemo which she was told was the cause but they’d occur maybe once a month, now it’s happening every few days after being off chemo for nearly 5 months. Recently she was told it was subacute bowel obstruction.
I am terrified that this is the beginning of the end and I can barely bring myself to write it. She’s only 58 and has not lived a bad lifestyle at all.
She has been called into the hospital tomorrow for results of a CT scan and to discuss if surgery or a stent is an option due to the regular occurrence of the pains and sickness/diarrhoea. I am petrified of both of these options for her and also if these aren’t options. I’m lost but need to be strong for her even though I’m breaking.
Does anyone have any experience of this type of scenario? I would appreciate your experiences/thoughts.
Rebecca x