Hello
I took a long time to decide to write this but I feel I need some help. My husband's mother has breast cancer. She is in her eighties and her treatment now is to give her some extra time with us. My husband and his mother are very close but cannot see each other very often. He has severe spinal pain and I am his carer. I am worried about so many things. How to be there for her, how to help my husband through this. I am also worried about our relationship. I actively encourage him to put his mother first as he should but our relationship already faces difficulty with his own health problems. He is a good kind man who loves her very much. I just want to do the right thing but I feel lost as to what that is. I have never dealt with a cancer sufferer before. How do people do this.
