Hello SuzieJC,

How heartbreaking this must be for you..How difficult it must be to be told this devastating news knowing that your parents are not aware of the situation. It is really hard to know what to do  and I am sure you will find what feels right for you and your family and that you will manage to find the right words in these terribly difficult circumstances. 

I will let some of our  members who may have been in a similar situation come and share their experience with you. 

Do keep us updated if you get a chance on how things go. 

Thinking of you and your family during this challenging time. 

Best wishes,

Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator