Hello
Im new to the forum .
mum was diagnosed with secondary liver cancer last month and is waiting on results of scans to find the primary. As a smoker I think it’s likely to be lungs as she’s been coughing .
She showed signs of jaundice and so the GP Sent her To the hospital for bloods etc but it took six hours and so she left and went home. She then had a panic attack in the night and said I’m never going back there.
She’s adamant that she’s in decline and wants no treatment and wants to stay in the house . My dad is respecting her wishes and looking into support available . However a neighbour happened to mentioned that they had been scarred for life caring for their husband at the end.
My question is what are the pros and cons of staying at home or going to a hospice ? I suffer with anxiety and although I’d like to think I could cope with looking after her at the end I need to know what that looks like .
thank you to everyone who reads and replies xx
