Well after a good 18 months of my dad being turned away from scans (dr just put it down to his age he’s 72) to see if he had prostrate cancer he was rushed to hospital in October as he hadn’t been seeing properly and it built up and he was in lots of pain and called ambulance himself. From there tests were done and he was told it was cancer and very aggressive. Due to having a catheter put in they refused to do and treatment and he went until January when they removed the catheter to see if he could wee which was unsuccessful he then had to wait til end of March for a op on the prostate this was successful and was due to start radiotherapy Monday just gone which was cancelled last minute with no explaination. He’s been to consultant today to be told it’s unlikely he will have any treatment as it’s spread to his lymplodes but they won’t compketly rule this out until he’s had a body scan  this was a big blow to us today and my dad just broke down it’s awful to see someone you love in so much pain he was so active before hand now he spends most of the day sleeping I don’t no how I’m gonna cope seeing him detoriate and when things get worse I work and got 3 kids which he adores and try to spend as much time as poss with him it’s heartbreaking