Hi this might seem harsh but his mum seems to be his number one priority you are number two that's not very good for a partnership. You haven't said anything about his cancer or treatment some treatments can give mood swings, I know you said you argued about his mum before but has it got worse with treatment. Hope things settle down for you good luck.
He is only on his first week of Chemo and has months ahead of him. I will support him the whole way through. It does hurt me but I keep thinking right now I've just got to forget that.
She is usually hands on with our kids and helping around the house but at the moment she is not really helping at all. I have asked for outside help and I am managing so far. It's so early days so I don't know what will happen when the kids go back to school. I do think I'd be happier with support from my friends (no family around) at least that way I know where I am day by day.
