Hi Holly,

I am in a similar position. My dad has stage 4 kidney cancer but it's spread to his spine. I'm terrified for the future. Can't bear watching him suffer. Wish we had a magic wand to wave this nightmare away. I'm just trying to spend as much time with him as I can. Big hugs to you xx

Hi Holly & Kelly,

My brother has recently been diagnosed with cancer of the kidney which has spread to his spine also :-( I'm absolutely heartbroken. It's the not knowing anything that is really frustrating. Keep feeling angry hate the fact cancer exists, its so cruel. I'm sorry to hear about both of your dads big hugs to you all. I only found this forum tonight nice knowing there is so much support and advice x