Asking on behalf of someone.

Hello,

My name is Gio,

I know someone who is currently suffering with stage 4 cancer, apprently it has srunk a bit which is great! but she is really suffering from being restrained to going out and enjoying the little life she has left. She would like to get out and do something but the side affect of the chemo is really not letting her do that. Is there anything that can help her counteract the chemo or is there anything else she can do rather than chemo? Just really want to help as much as possible and not sure what i can do. :( Thank you for your time and any advice i can get. I want her to be able to enjoy her life as much as possible without worrying that she could catch something. Not sure i have posted to the right place. but thank you.

Best wishes.

  • Hi there ...

    Sorry to hear about your friend ... if l were you, I'd find things to do at her home .. even watching a favourite  film or looking through album's ... as I know how hard it is to "get out" while treatment takes it's toll on her ... at least at home she's near her own bathroom ... or can curl up on the sofa .. I wouldn't worry too much about getting out ... I'm sure she can do those things once chemo is over, and she feels better ... 

    Chrissie x

  • Hello and welcome from me too.  I have never had chemo and realise I cannot start to imagine how difficult it is to function properly in your friend's situation.    I looked on the internet and found there are quite a few websites suggesting activities for home-bound people (I attach a link for one of them to give you the idea but there are loads more.)  Your question about counteracting or finding an alternative for the chemo your friend is getting really needs to be addressed to the doctor who is caring for her as to change any part of her medication needs to be very carefully planned.  I also wondered if your friend could get involved in fund-raising activities for either the hospital under whose care she comes or another charity related to her illness.  I would imagine that at least some of them could suggest things that would be suitable for her current situation.   My best wishes to you and your friend.  Annie

    butyoudontlooksick.com/.../