Hello Zizi. 

I'm sorry to hear about your daughter's Dad's illness. It sounds like a difficult time for you all. 

Children can be very perceptive and pick up on something being seriously wrong even if they aren't told directly. As you and your ex-husband have a positive line of communication, it would seem wise to talk between the two fo you about how you may best support your daughter through this. We do have some information on our website about talking to children and you may find this helpful as a starting point. 

With the exciting arrival of a new brother or sister to add into things as well, your daughter may have a lot of conflicting emotions to deal with so it may be worth chatting to her teacher at school so that they are also aware and are able to support her. 

You sound like you are doing a great job at making sure your daughter is as prepared and supported as she can be Zizi. It can't be an easy time for you so please do remember to be kind to yourself as well through all this. 

Best wishes, 
Jenn
Cancer Chat moderator