Hi and thank you for reading this post. My mum has has been ill for almost two years now with cancer that came back in her liver, lungs and breatbone. Recently she has been deteriorating so I am flying out to see her and be with her. I just feel like I'm upsetting her all the time though as I try to manage her logistics because she can't walk very far and she hates to be reminded of this fact. Trying to do what's best for her but she calls me a terrible person for making her upset and draining her energy. Has anyone experienced this and is there something I should be doing differently? I feel like she'll never change her opinion of me as someone who tries to boss her around even though I'm the one who's sorted out her care and looked after her for the last 2 years.