My wife as pancreatic cancer the same I really feel for you and know every day is a struggle . Try to keep strong for your dad x I've been put on anti depressants &I dread everyday and dread the future .I know how u feel life is one long battle against this vile monster. Ian praying for some good luck to come your way & ny wifes way  x x

Hello there,thank you for answering,can I ask about her way of treatment?oncologist told that my dad should recieve chemotherapy and then surgery,his chemotherapy sessions has finished,we are waiting for what will happen next

My wife had wipple surgery to remove pancreas,she recovers well but then had first chemo which left her totally wiped out. She turned poorly again & was admitted to hospital after scans they found cancer had spread . She also had blood clots in lungs and an infection.after 3 week in hospital she's now at home .this is a constant worry knowing what to do if any complications pain etc.set in. She is to return to hospital on 3 Sept I think to discuss pallative chemo(to try and shrink tumours I think)which hopefully gives us more time x x .but who knows when we get there.the whole think as left me depressed, lonely and Iam sorry to say dreading each day & the future. People say keep strong but this is hard .how are you keeping in all this,.wife in bed a lot so loneliness sets in .also very isolated where we live .I now hate the area.there's some ok Times .last nite we watched a film together on tv (Nita&me)and I took her in chair across sea front.she can't bear to be out long as she says her head is to busy!Ian guessing this is the medication? I think each case is different.some nice news yesterday,daughter did marathon & raised over 1500 for pancreatic cancer x keep in touch & best wishesx

Hi there,sorry for answering late,i was away these days,omg i can understand you how painful is that im not ready at all,tonight when i was eating dinner i was seeing my dad's face his hair is falling i was going to cry but i stoped myself how can i see him with no hair with that very skinny face in near future,no one can understand us till they be in our place,i became atheist after i understood my dad has cancer,its not fair i used to believe in karma before but not any more,but still i like to think about a mircle will happen,i hope both for your wife and my dad,i will meet a therapist,maybe a little help if you try it too will be a little help,and about your daughter she is a brave girl.