So nan has decided to go for operation! I know there are risks but I feel this is a step in the right direction, she has opted to go for it after her birthday (she will be 88 and thinks that’s a suitable age for death) morbid but hey she’s actually getting help. The hospital have been great and have set up support for her so she doesn’t feel so neglected. Her doctors however have been so unhelpful but I guess she is now getting help. It’s been a while since I last posted, but we have had a nightmare ceiling falling in and everything. But I think this the first time I have felt positive the only thing is I will be away on holiday when she has the op so that’s my only worry. 

I hope to update with better news (fingers crossed) 

amanda xxxx