Struggling

Hi All, 

Not sure what t say or what I’m looking for, just hoping someone can give me some words of comfort. My mother has advanced Kidney cancer, no longer works and seems to be getting worse each day. Weakness, sickness, weight loss, no appetite and it feels like psychologically she has given up. I cannot imagine life without my mum, and to see her this way day in day out breaks every ounce of me. I feel so lost and don’t know what to do.. who to talk to. 

I have recently broken up with my partner, recovering from back surgery myself and it feels like my life is just unravelling. Is there light at the end of the tunnel? 

  • Know exactly how painful this is for you.Im losing my mum and its the most painful thing I've ever had to deal with. Some days I'm numb other days I can't even function  People say I'm coping but I'm not, just living each hour/day as if comes and somehow I'm still living with it. Let yourself cry,  it's only natural. Make the most of the time you have with your mum and let her know how much you love her.As for light at the end of the tunnel, hope so. Live in the moment and take it as it comes,its all we can do when a loved one has cancer. 

    Sending you a hug.