Hi there, so sorry to hear about your sister, and so many now seem so young ... yes cancer has no empathy, or compassion... it doesn't care who, old and young, male or female, fit, poorly ... it doesn't discriminate ... 

You sound like a wonderfull sister ... I'm sure all those things you've said, will mean the world to her ... there's lots of breast cancer lasses on here ... all ages, and all at different stages, different treatments ... but we all help each other through ... we have cancer, it doesn't have us ... as one of our lasses says and it's so true ... yes there will be hard days and lots of emotions ... but if she can look it in the eye, and take it on , it will help her through ... though having a young baby must be doubly hard ..

But with a sis like you, it's doable ... the more that family can pull together ... maybe a Rota of help to cover times she'll need it ... it does help to share tears .. and hugs ... and to admit your all scared ...  l had grade 3 her 2 breast cancer and mastectomy last July, and I'm here writing to you ... 

Cancer wants us to buckle, and feel weak .. and lay down and give in ... but these breast lasses have taken cancer by the short and curlies and giving it a run for its money ... we've got it on the ropes ... so can your sister ... so sending you both a big hug ... Chrissie