Poorly Dad

My farther was diagnosed with terminal cancer last May. Having done two rounds of radiotherapy .... he has been getting more and more poorly. Spending more time in bed, sleeping being very sick and not eating. Obviously he is in a lot of drugs and they have put him on steroids now, to which he has taken on a new lease of life..... constantly active , making lots of jokes and saying he has never felt better. He was given two months to live in March.... and I wonder if this is the bout of energy some people get before they pass away. 

My trouble is I live in America and came back over as we were so concerned..... I just want to know what’s going on and if this is normal..... his energy levels are higher than before he got the cancer!!! 

The nurses are amazing and we couldn’t ask for anymore help .... 

Does anyone have have any insight tonthe sudden change of character??

Many Thanks  

  • So sorry to read about your dad, While I don't have any real experience of cancer or its treatments , I do have experience of being on steroids. I suffer with rheumatoid arthritis and I am on steroids frequently. When I am free of a flare of arthritis I Do not be on the steroids and like any normal person if I work hard or exercise hard I pay for it in tiredness and fatigue. When I get a flare ,it is so devastingly tiring and painful ,its beyond explaining just suffice to say even brushing your teeth needs two hands ,one to support the one with the brush. When they put me on the steroids its like I am a new man, loads of strength and energy but they are so detrimental to your health am they have serious side effects if you are on the them for a length of time. Your heart beats faster than normal, you are warmer than normal,you have more energy than at anytime in your life. But it is a false dawn, say in my case I have to come down off them gradually and hope the flare stops, its not good to come sharply off steroids.What I am trying to explain is the effects of steroids and they are extremely powerful and will make you feel invincible but they only mask the cause of your illness they will never cure it, I'm sorry to say. I hope this helps . Regards Joe.