Hello everyone

My husband has stage 4 renal cancer that metastisized to lungs and lymph. We don't have a good prognosis so we are just trying to enjoy our days and live life as full as he can.  I am happy to say that  I have an excellant support group of friends and family but what I don't have is anyone close who has gone through this.  I'm really just lookikng to be able to ask questions about the different things we can expect over the course of time. I don't know if that is something anyone can really answer but I just don't know what to expect from her on in.

To date I think he is doing fairly well....biggest problem is how exhausted he is all the time. Goes to bed about 11 each night and sleeps through until about 11;00 - 1:00 ish.  His appetite is limited but we don't make an issue over it. I just let him eat what he wants when he can. Our dietician has been very helpful in making calories count. 

I know everyone is different so it may be hard to answer me but I'm kind of wondering what things will happen next. So far, its lack of interest in food and exhaustion.   Any thoughts?