my wife has just had her 48th birthday after being ill in january with a severe cough and fever was rushed to hospital she was found to have sepsis she was relaesed 3 days later only to be rushed back by ambulance as the symptoms returned various scans and ultra sounds were performed when the results came back mid febuary we was told that my wifes liver had legeans we were sent to see the oncologist who ordered a ultra sound and ct scan at the end of febuary we returned back to outpatiants oncology and out of the blue my wife was told  you have advanced pancreatic and liver cancer a week later i took her to hospital for a biopsy she walked into the hospital although weak with a flat stomach four hours later her stomach has swelled like she is 9months pregnant she was admited into hospital her stomach has never gone down she now has lost all her muscle can no longer walk and been told the swelling was just a coincidence and nothing more can be done as the cancer has spread fast and is aggressive we have 2 daughters 1 aged 19 the other 21 and a young boy of 10 we have asked for a second opion and have been told they will send all scans and documents to a different hospital and the hospitital are now arranging for a transfer to a hospice my wife is growing weaker by the day extremely frieghtened very tearful im trying to console the chidren and totally beside myself at how fast this has happened i just dont know what to do