Back in December my mum collapsed with a suspected stroke  tests showed it was actually a tumour on the brain but was secondary but because she had a severe chest infection they couldnt scan to see where the cancer had started...  she later  developed  pneumonia n ended up in ICU sedated and ventilated one Doctor  wrote her off n told us she would not come off sedation or ventilator as u can imagine we were all devastated but untold the idiot Dr to  go away as she had only been admitted   12hrs before  anyways she came off the ventilator 48hours after and off sedation 24hrs later so the Dr  was wrong she improved and was put on a ward and then  was home in time for Christmas  in January  she went to  have a CT scan at last...  and results revealed  she has stage 4 lung cancer which obviously spread to her lymph nodes and brain was told no treatment is available  and that she has 3-6 months to live  we are distraught she has 5 grandchildren  aged 3,5 9,10 and 11 my daughter us 10 and is so close to my mum and is struggling  mum.is at home in a hospital bed with carers of a morning n evening. My dad. Sister brother and me all take turns helping  out. It's hard as her legs hardly work and she's so weak  she has to be helped to the commode to go to the toilet.. and is always weak n tired we have taken her out for days out and just making memories with her. I'm staying strong for  my 3 children  but it's eating me up seeing her so weak my daughter is really struggling  looking at trying to.get her counselling  I dunno where to start.