Hi I am 21 and my mum has secondary bone cancer, it was mis diagnosed as sciatica for a very long time therefore has spread to an extreme amount of the body from head to toe. Up untill now with various trips in and out of hospital and knock backs almost every week regarding complications of treatments etc, her mentality has deteriorated, we have drink supplements from the hospital that are 300kcal a bottle but she barely finishes one a day, she won’t eat anything & everyday is a battle as we don’t want to feel as though it’s forcing but if she continues to loose weight they will be reluctant to do chemo, nothing seems to persuade her. I feel as though she is giving up and has lost sight of why we want her to eat, though understandable as she is in pain all day everyday. I get it, in that situation would I feel like giving up too?