How to support my brother

Can anyone offer me advice on how to support my brother hes just been diagnosed with terminal lung cancer its also spred to his limpnodes. I think he is in denial as he doesnt speak much about whats going on and i dont really know how to get him to talk. He lives with me im finding it hard to controle my own emonitions making sure to stay strong and positive when in his company then hiding away in my room when im upset. How do i approach this for his best interest any advice is welcomed. Thanks? 

  • Hi there ... your brother may be processing all the thoughts he's having ... l couldn't talk or see anyone for couple of days just staying in spare room feeling overwhelmed by the whole thing ..but then once prossesed it my brain l was ready to talk and let loved ones in ... im so glad they all gave me the space l needed ... and the support after was amazing ... and l could then face anything ... holding on to them too 

    So, this is only my opinion but just tell him your there when he feels ready to talk ... and giving him a little space now, but knowing your there when he needs you ... sending you a big virtual hug Chrissie xx