Hi
My dad was diagnosed with Stage 3 Bowel Cancer in Dec 17 he is currently in the 4th week of his radiotherapy/ Chemo regime which he has every day. He has just been told that after this course of treatment ends they will not be scanning him to see if the tumor has shrunk until mid April!!!! then presumabley operate. he is currently having to do a 3 hour round trip for treatment every day because of where he lives.
this course of action is not what the surgeon said in Dec when he said he Wanted to/had to operate within a 12 week period a couple of questions i hope someone can answer:
1. Is this a normal delay surely the longer you leave it the more chance the tumor has to grow
2. Why would we be told something different at the meeting with the specailists and why would they not take into account the feelings of the affected person currently my dad is swaying between its obviously not that serious/ they obviously dont give a toss
Any advise on this would be appriciatted i understand about the pull on resources in the NHS but what he is being told is not what he was told in December and it just (rightly or wrongly) feels like he fast tracked to the point the ttreatment started and thats where they can legitimately string it out.
Sorry if i sound a bit negative but its all a bit shoddy and not a good way to treat an elderly man already confused about whats going on.
