My father has advanced bladder cancer which has spread to his bones, mainly his back. His treatment has stopped and he has been taken off the clinical trial he was on. He is now on morphine. He is very confused and we are waiting results to see if it has spread to the brain. As his daughter I am finding it quite difficult to deal with. I wanted to join here to speak to others who understand. I live a long way from him so can't see him and getting information from my mother, or indeed him often turns out to be different to what is actually happening, I think due to misunderstanding situations.
