Hi, 

I am new and my partner is going through Chemotherapy at the moment. He has had four rounds and is quite ill from it. This is a first for both of us and being in our early 30's, was a shock. 

We have been together for a couple of years and had the perfect relationship. Even up until about two months ago but I am finding that he is pushing me away. I have tried to talk to him about it but his reply often is he doesn't have the energy. I feel SO selfish for having these needy thoughts and wondered if anyone else has a tried/tested method or even can shed some light on how someone with chemo is feeling so I can keep trying to convince myself it is our situation, not our relationship. 

Just an FYI, my partner has a very good prognosis. 

Thanks for reading x