My mum was diagnosed with cancer on Friday. She has it in her neck and lower spine with some I her pelvis ribs and skull. She has been given a couple of months. The cancer has affected her spinal cord leaving her unable to use her hands or feet. She is bedridden having to lie flat with a neck brace. Last week she was Ok, fit and able. How do I help mum with such a huge change? I can't stop crying and I need to be strong for her.