I am new to this

Hello all, i am not to sure what to say. My husband was told he had oesophageal cancer  in febuary of 2017.He was then told that he would not be able to have the op or chemo as he was to ill. now its terminal and he has lost so much weight and in pain all the time. I seem to knocking my head against a brick wall as i have asked for him to have a driver fitted because of the pain, but they said he don't need one yet. But i hate to see him in pain, i feel so alone.

sorry for ranting on