Mesothelioma

my dad was diagnosed with Mesothelioma cancer just over twelve months now, We was told that my dad had 9-12 months to live, My dad has lost 5 stone over this period of time.  Despite the cancer my dad has tried to live a normal life, until now he has become extremely weak, he doesn't want do anthing, just sleep, he has stopped eating, and has a lot of mucus which he finds hard to get rid of,and his breathing has become more shallow, i feel that I am losing him!!

  • Hi there ... So sorry you are going through such a heartbreaking time ...  My dad went with emphysema and it was so hard watching him as he was always so full of life and he'd made us three girls life full of magic and he was an amazing granddad too .. he never raised his voice to us and he was the gentalist of men ... So near the end , we held his hand and would tell him what the kids were up to and anything that we could think of ... Saying I love you lots to him and just being there ... Then home to bath and tears that would burst out .... 

    There's no easy way through the coming days but just knowing your there I'm sure will give him confort ... And I always said the good memories your heart holds will stay with you forever , and no one can take them away. .... My thoughts are with you ... Bless ya .... Xx big hug x