Help advice needed

Hi I have a cousin 34 diagnosed with breast cancer only few months ago ... Everything has happened so quickly I'm getting confused ... She got told it had spread to her lungs .. then ask after to her bones .. then yesterday to her brain ... chemo has stopped with immediate effect and radiotherapy as Braun is priority now ... Has anyone had a relative survive this or been through this ? I just want to know what to expect as I'm due to have her two young sons soon as she is getting so weak and I feel useless and heartbroken because she is so scared and I can't seem to make sense of what all this means so quickly ... any advice welcome x 

  • Hi ... so sorry as it must be so worrying at this time ... and it must feel overwhelming as things can move so quickly and doesn't give us time to sort our feelings out ... there are some lovely mediators on here who will give you more advice and help ... there is a great help line on macmillan help line who can listen to all your worries and they really helped me when I was feeling lost too ...

    So thinking of you and hope you get the help and support you need ... big hug xx