Mums choice

Hi all 

My mum has decided she does not want chemotherapy, she is very week at the moment eating very little, generally feeling very unwell. Been with my mum since 2am crying etc, she just wants to die now so hard to except this. My mum is dying of advanced lung cancer, she hasn't even seen the oncologist yet but she is adamant she doesn't want it, as it's putting of the inevitable am really struggling.

I feel am been very selfish as it is my mum choice, but I can't help it.

she has been told without chemotherapy she will have very little time yet.

  • I came close to dying a couple of months ago with sepsis and my wife begged me not to go.

    From my point of view when the end is really nigh, I hope that she can finally tell me it's ok to go, I think it might make my dying easier. I will not go lightly but I think I, and she, will know when it's time and I can take no more.

    Regards

    Taff