Welcome to Cancer Chat Zena94.

I'm so sorry to hear that your girlfriend has been diagnosed with stage 4 kidney cancer and that you are finding difficult to cope.

You came to the right place, Zena94. Many of our forum members will understand how you feel and I hope you will get a chance to chat with them soon. But if you don't receive a reply to your post, don't shy away from joining a conversation you wish to participate, everyone here is very friendly and I'm sure they will be happy to chat with you.

Also, there are some tips here about coping emotionally with cancer, and I hope they can help you a little.

Just remember, you are not alone, we are here for whenever you need a chat.

Warm wishes,

Renata, Cancer Chat Moderator