my grandad and lung cancer

So about a month ago my grandad got the news that he had cancer in both lungs and his liver and to be honest it has really gotten to me! he has started his treatment. Nobody has  told me what stage he is in but i know he will be lucky if he makes it. And i havent told anyone how i feel and I dont want to make it about me because ... you know im not the one with the cancer. I never thought I would be writing on one of these websites but i really  need somebody to give me advice because Im finding it really hard to cope.

  • Hi my mum has lung cancer and starts her treatment in 2 weeks.You really have to try and stay positive which I know is really hard.When I found out about mum everything came crashing down around me and all I need was cry,but seeing my mum being so brave and positive about it made me realise I to had to be brave and just take each day has to comes.Stay in touch xxxx

  • Thank you for replying it means so much. I wish I was a strong as you but it just gets to me sometimes especially because I lost a diffrent family member to cancer so it scares me. and Im am so sorry to hear about your mam ireally hope see gets through this! Emma xxx