So about a month ago my grandad got the news that he had cancer in both lungs and his liver and to be honest it has really gotten to me! he has started his treatment. Nobody has told me what stage he is in but i know he will be lucky if he makes it. And i havent told anyone how i feel and I dont want to make it about me because ... you know im not the one with the cancer. I never thought I would be writing on one of these websites but i really need somebody to give me advice because Im finding it really hard to cope.