Hi, I'm 17 and I have grew up knowing loads of people around me who have suffered from cancer-mainly my grandad.  I know it is very hard and difficult, but you have to remain strong, not only for your husband and kids, but for yourself too. When I learnt my grandad was being treated for cancer, my family was the only thing keeping me together.  You have to stay together as a family unit and fight this togethever. I hope your husband gets better, but make sure you stay strong too.