My mum's been diagnosed with stomach cancr, with secondary in the liver. We got the diagnosis last night.

They won't tell us the prognosis or aanything until we've talked to an oncologist. I have numbers but I don't know what they mean.

She's already talking herself into it being terminal. Saying she'll refuse treatment if it gives her less than a year. Saying she just wants to sleep and not wake up. Trying to get me to promise not to let my boys see her sick. She's only in her fifties. They said the oncologist appointment could be up to two weeks. I'm honestly afraid she'll be suicidal by then. Don't know what to do.